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We can also be veritable pursuers.
So how can we rewrite this narrative? To start, I asked women to tell me about a time they made the first move. Read their stories below, and then me in reshaping what the pursuit of love, sex and romantic revelry can look like by telling me yours, too. Turns out I was the only one who messaged first and it really stood out to him. We were both nervous and awkward during his shift. At the end, he was counting his cash register and making self-deprecating jokes. In my experience, guys like it when you explicitly pick them and start dancing with them.
Therein lies the biggest pro for me: I get to pick, instead of turn down unwanted advances. After a closing shift together, I offered him my futon to crash on for the night. He never slept on that futon. Next month is our fourth wedding anniversary. Then, during the chaos of the last day of school, I wrote my name and on a gum wrapper.
It worked many times, so I stuck with that plan of attack! The next morning, I slid into his Facebook inbox with the link to a Myers Briggs test.
Then waited…He sent me his and we started chatting. One night, I fell in love with one of the comedians, who happened to be a writer for a prominent late night talk show host. He had no social media profiles, so I spent hours searching for some means of contacting him.
Ended up finding his personaland wrote him a note telling him I thought he was great and funny and that I wanted to take him out for a drink. My friends laughed at me — they never thought he would respond. BUT he did! Hours later, and could not have been more flattered. The next week we went out for drinks. I had to pick the venue.
We dated briefly until he ghosted me. JUST kidding, making the first move is awesome. And I would do it again. I had a crush on him from afar and lost him at the end of the last night. When his program term ended before mine, we awkwardly said goodbye outside of a dorm. I knew immediately I had blown it, but he was already out of sight. Suddenly, I just started sprinting across campus to where I knew his car was parked, as if I was in some sort of rom-com or a decent runner.
I found him loading his stuff into his car and I just went for it and kissed him like Nora Ephron was directing.
Honestly, I still have a crush on him. I told him his T-shirt was cool and we should switch shirts. Later I said he should give me his in case I wanted my shirt back. We made eye contact for a while until I decided to make the first move.
I told my date that an old friend of mine was here and should wait for me here while I say hi. When I approached him, I gave him a cigarette so he could me outside and we could chat away from anyone in the bar. I told him he was hot, pretended to not be on a date and gave him my phone. My date came outside looking for me. I had to introduce them as I was pretending to be with an old friend. I made up a name and then left. My stranger called me the next day. He is American, I am French. Now we are married and living in Toronto. Do you want to have sex with me?
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